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7 Quotes from Iconic Women Everyone Should Know

7 Quotes from Iconic Women Everyone Should Know
Whether it is for themselves or to share with someone who needs the motivation. ♥


I. Love. Quotes. 

I know a lot of people that say music got them through tough times in my life.  Don't get me wrong, I love a good lyric or rhythmic beat, who doesn't?  But honestly, doesn't it feel great when you are having a really poopy day and you log in to your favorite social media site to see that someone has posted a quote that just so happens to be something you needed to hear?  I love it when that happens!

I love quotes from various people/characters about all sorts of things from movies and yes, even song lyrics.  From time to time I will be posting some of my faves.  The following 7 quotes are by women that I believe truly have made an impact on this world in a big way.  You may or may not agree and you may or may not hold these women in the same regard that I do.  All of that is ok.  "It's what we do with the information that we are given that really matters, not who it was given to us by." ~ Cat Clayton 😉

"Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie?"  

Marilyn Monroe was born June 1, 1926 (exactly 50 years before me!) and passed away on August 5, 1962, at just 36 years old.  In her 36 years, she became a Hollywood icon and was arguably one of the most celebrated actresses in history.  While her personal story is somewhat scandalous and in the end, very sad, many people celebrate her exuberant personality and the positive marks she left behind.  While there are quite a few quotes that were reportedly by Marilyn Monroe, this is one of my favorites because "YOU" should always be the top priority.  I think it's the only way we can keep the rest of the world spinning. *Note: The link attached to her name under the quote is to her IMDB page.

"You can't please everyone, and you can't make everyone like you."

Katie Couric was born January 7th, 1957 and has an extremely successful journalist career.  She has worked on all three major television networks (ABC, NBC & CBS) and released her book, The Best Advice I Ever Got: Lessons from Extraordinary Lives, which was a New York Times best-seller.  The journalism world is not friendly and there are ALWAYS critics!  Even as a blogger, we find that no article, post, or video pleases everyone.  That is why there is a "Like" and "Dislike" button!  If you are trying to save the world and make everyone happy, the only real person you are hurting is yourself.  Find your niche, build your brand and just be you.  The people that really matter in your journey may or may not agree, but either way, you will never question yourself if you stay true to you. *Note: The link attached to her name under the quote is to her twitter account.

"I do not try to dance better than anyone else.  I only try to dance better than myself."

Arianna Huffington was born July 15, 1950, and has been described by Biography.com as "a prolific author and international media mogul who started the award-winning news platform The Huffington Post."  She is also the author of several books on various topics like Sleep, Success, Greed, and the Presidential Election.  While I am not a fan of politics, I enjoy Arianna's wit, charm, and honesty.  There's something about a "no holds barred" woman that oozes motivation.  One day I'll check off the "I got published on the Huffington Post" box and it will be due in part, to trying to be a better "me" and not better than someone else. *Note: The link attached to her name under the quote is to her twitter account.

"If you don't get out of the box you've been raised in, you won't understand how much bigger the world is."

Angelina Jolie was born on June 4, 1975 (3 days shy of exactly 1 year before me! - why am I not as successful and popular as her?  She only had a year head start.  Her parents were in the business though, so she also had that stepping stone.  Plus, she was born in the land of movies basically.  Ok...I'll hop off this "what about me" box now. 😎)  What a crazy successful career she has led - Actress, Producer, Director, Activist, & Mom!!  While her name has been under much scrutiny, I personally admire her and specifically this quote.  I was raised in Fort Worth, Texas and during my childhood, driving in any direction, more than 30 minutes was basically the same as traversing the world to visit England.  My parents were a little afraid of the big unknown and didn't want their daughter (and son - my little brother) to get lost in it.  What they didn't know is that I was born to see the world.  I was in my 20's before I ever flew out of the state and have still not been out of the country...yet.  And that is a BIG yet!!  My parents have still, to this day, NEVER been on a plane.  I'm glad I found my way out of the box and can't wait to see the rest of the world! *Note: Angelina Jolie does not engage in social media, so the link above is to her IMDB page.

"All careers go up and down like friendships, like marriages, like anything else, and you can't bat a thousand all the time."

Julie Andrews was born October 1, 1935, and is an insanely talented celebrity.  She has won an Academy Award, 5 Golden Globes, 3 Grammy's, 2 Emmy's, the Screen Actors Guild Lifetime Achievement Award and the Disney Legends Award - aside from many others.  For someone so incredibly successful to honestly share a quote that is really hard for some people to really grasp and accept is motivating to me.  I want so badly to be successful in my career, to leave a legacy of some sort that my children can be proud of, it's nice to be reminded that not every article, post or video is going to hit the mark I am planning for it too.  And that I can just try again until I hit the mark I'm looking for. *Note: The link attached to her name under the quote is to her IMDB page.  While she does have a twitter account, it doesn't seem to be used often.

"We do not need magic to change the world, we carry all the power we need inside ourselves already: we have the power to imagine better."

J.K. Rowling was born July 31, 1965, and published the first of her Harry Potter series in the US at just 33 years old.  Her online bio talks about being a child that loved to read and wrote her first book at 6 years old and her first novel at 11.  It seems she was destined to write.  I aspire to be a novelist someday and reading her story gives me hope.  The quote above is funny to me because it begins by saying, "We do not need magic to change the world...", but that is exactly what I think stories are - magic.  I'm sure that she was referring to the literal form of magic with wands and such, but when you can open a book and be transported to any other time and place, that is magic to me. *Note: The link attached to her name under the quote is to her Twitter account.

"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

Maya Angelou was born April 4, 1928, and passed away May 28, 2014, at 86 years old.  She was a Poet, Singer and Civil Rights Activist.  You can search the interwebs all day long and come up with a billion quotes - she was lavish with knowledge, wit, honesty, and love.  When she passed, condolences were given by many celebrities and influential people including President Bill Clinton and President Barach Obama (whose sister was reportedly named after Maya Angelou).  Harold Augenbraum - American writer, editor, and translator as well as the former Executive Director of the National Book Foundation - is quoted as saying, "Her legacy is one that all writers and readers across the world can admire and aspire to."  The week after her death, her book I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings rose to #1 on Amazon's best seller list.  The year after her death the United States Postal Service issued a stamp celebrating her life with this quote by Joan Walsh Anglund - "A bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song."  The quote above by Maya Angelou is my favorite quote of all time.  I remind my children often in my own words: "A person won't remember what you said or what you did, but they will always remember how you made them feel.  Remember that."  They do and I have a sneaky feeling that it will be passed on to future generations.  *Note: Link attached to name under quote is to her website.


Here are also a few of my favorite quotes that are by unknown authors:


"You learn more from failure than from success.  Don't let it stop you.  Failure builds character."

"Don't raise your voice, improve your argument."

"The vision to see, the faith to believe, and the will to do, will take you anywhere you want to go."

"The difference between stumbling blocks and stepping stones is how you use them."

"Everyone smiles in the same language."

 ~Authors Unknown 


**Note: Each author's name (under the quote) is a link to either their Twitter page or IMDB page.   Also, it is important that you know I am no way promoted by Amazon or any other company that may be listed above.  The links I provided in this post are NOT affiliate links, and I do not make one pretty penny from the purchase of any of the books linked above.  I do offer affiliate links to products and services in some of my other posts, but this is not one of them.

© WAHMCat 2018





Confession From a Sleep Deprived WAHM

So….you know you’ve had a long day when….

What. A. Long. Day. – That is what I was thinking on the way home the other day.  It had been one of “those” days.  You know the kind:

  • Wake up at 3 am with a headache. – 
  • Wake up at 5 am to the smoke alarm going off – just one of them. – 
  • Arrive in the hall after checking each room for smoke and see a tiny little ant circling
  • the rim of the smoke alarm in the hall… are you kidding me? – 
  • Wake up late (which means no time to shower). – 
  • Start knocking off the mile-long “To Do” list only to realize it can’t all possibly be done
  • because enough time does not exist in the day. – 
  • Spend the day (half asleep) trying to deal with people who you are convinced are out to
  • get you. – 
  • Check the calendar to see if it is a full moon.  Nope. -  
  • Forget to eat lunch because it is 3:00 pm before you take the time to hear the sound
  • your stomach is screaming at you. - ☑ 
  • Run 82.5 billion errands only to realize that only ¼ of your list was completed.  What did
  • you actually accomplish today? - 


Yes.  That kind.  But then – finally – it was time to head home.  Sweet.  Not a moment too soon.

So there I am, sitting in my car, driving home.  It has turned into a lovely evening so I turn the A/C off and roll down the windows to enjoy the light breeze.  I have the radio tuned to my favorite station and I realize I’m pretty beat when I can’t even really sing along.  So happy to be headed home.

And then, it happened.  As I’m waiting for the light to turn green, I see it.  Right in the middle of the intersection!  A huge frog!!  He is just hopping little tiny froggy hops across the intersection.  Then I begin to think… There aren’t any sources of water around here.  No creek, river or even water sprinklers going off.  Aren’t frogs supposed to live in dark, damp, swampy type places? Or maybe not. (I should Google that later.) 

Where did this little guy come from?  Well, he’s hardly little – he’s actually quite large!  Poor thing – stuck in the middle of the road with cars on all sides of him.  Unfortunately, I am in no condition to be stopping traffic to rescue a huge frog that I’ll have no idea what to do with.  Although…the thought does cross my mind. (sigh) Lord, I need to get home. (Yawn.)



Finally, the light is green and as I start to press the gas pedal, I feel a tiny bit sad for this poor little froggy.  I sure hope he doesn’t get smushed!  And at that very moment…a car speeds through the light in the lane beside me and I already know my new little friend is done for.  The next few seconds play out in slow motion – the car hits the frog and he flies up into the air and then slowly (and almost melodically) starts to flutter back to the middle of the intersection.  I know what you are thinking, frogs don’t flutter.  Nope.  They sure don’t – but potato chip bags do. 

Yep.  That just happened.

So, no matter the day you’ve had – no matter how resilient you think you are – anytime you mistake a potato chip bag being slowly pushed across an intersection by a light breeze, for a lost frog looking for his marshy homeland – you’ve definitely had a long day.

3 Terrific Reasons to Ignore the Myth of Friday the 13th and How to Cure Your Phobia!

3 Terrific Reasons to Ignore the Myth Of Friday the 13th and How to Cure Your Phobia!


What is Friday the 13th?

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Ok, so it’s Friday the 13th…  That means something different for everyone.  Some people couldn’t care less and some people call in sick to work, hide under the fire-retardant blanket in bed and devise ways to escape the house should disaster strike.  (No, I am not talking about me… at least not the "me" that I am now  I did actually hide under my blankets in bed once because of a GIANT spider in my house in the country.  I was an adult, but so was the spider and she had like 83 billion little babies clinging to her back.  It was horrifying.) 

The number 13 has historically been thought to be unlucky or evil even!  Some tall buildings do not have a 13th button on the elevator!  Many people won’t get married on a Friday the 13th, fearing a doomed marriage. Some people will even turn down a great deal on a home because 13 is in the address!

Superstitions

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My mom is SUPER superstitious.  So superstitious in fact, that if she sees a black cat cross the path of her vehicle, she immediately applies the brakes, reverses the car and finds a new route to get where she is going.  If she absolutely cannot go another route she will cross the path and say “Bread and butter”.  That always drove me crazy as a child because… what?  What does bread or butter have to do with a cat crossing the road in front of you?  And if you see a black cat cross your path in a neighborhood that you drive through often – it is likely you cross that path ALL THE TIME!  My mom has also been known to toss salt over her left (or is it right?) shoulder if she accidentally spills it and would never ever walk under a ladder.

Superstitions never really made sense to me – but if I’m being honest – I might have picked up a little bit of the superstitious genes from my momma.  For instance, I won’t pick my own fortune cookie because you aren’t supposed to pick your own fortune. (Duh!)  Although, I am an avid believer that a person creates their own destiny – so it is completely a contradiction.  I also will not read my fortune until I have eaten the entire fortune cookie, crumbs and all.  I also happen to get empty fortune cookies all the time.  So what the heck does that even mean?!

I decided that on this lovely Friday the 13th, I would share 3 terrific reasons to ignore the old tale that it is an unlucky day.  So here you go. 😉

1.      IT IS FRIDAY!!!!
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I said Friday yo!  Who doesn’t enjoy a Friday?!  For the average working person, this is the day they wait for all week!  Even if you don’t follow the 8 – 5 schedule, Friday signifies a time to relax and let loose.  Most parties are on Friday or the weekend following. #datenight is often on a Friday night - at least for me and the Mr.  Like us, some people just like to order pizza and watch a movie at home.  Don’t waste your time worrying about what could be today!  Who cares what date is on the calendar – roll with it!  Find something fun to do! #FridayFunday

2.      Statistics say…
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It is said that people who believe bad things will happen on Friday the 13th will have more accidents on that day!  It is also said that people that live a pessimistic "glass half empty" kind of life, are generally unhappy people-always.  No matter how careful you are, accidents will happen.  But when you expect them to happen – it is even more likely.  It’s the whole bad vibes idea.  When you think bad things, it puts you in a negative state of mind. You just have to put yourself in a positive state of mind and go forth with a smile and confidence. #GoodVibesOnly


3.      Birthdays are special and important!!

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I believe that your birthday kind of makes you who you are.  Like the butterfly effect, if you were born on any other day – it could change the events of the entire world!  Your special day belongs to you and it shouldn't matter what day of the week or month it falls on. #BirthdaysRock

Many popular and successful people have been born on Friday the 13th!  Here are a few examples and what they are well known for.  Take a second to click the link to their IMDB page and learn more about these people!  Look at their success and then consider the fact that Friday the 13th could actually be lucky!

·         Didi Conn – actress well known for her roll in the movie “Grease”.  Who doesn’t love her chipper personality?
·     Darius Rucker – Singer & Actor, well known for his time with “Hootie & the Blowfish”
·         Kate Walsh – actress that is best known for her spot on Grey’s Anatomy from 2005 – 2012.
·         Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen – the twins well known for their time spent sharing a roll on Full House from 1987 – 1995 and then both becoming successful businesswomen

Personally, I haven’t found 13 to be an unlucky number for me.  While I am a tad bit superstitious, Friday the 13th doesn’t affect me.  In all honesty, I 100% understand the fear of different things and the anxiety it can cause for a person (believe me).  I have several fears that are difficult to cope with in some situations.  I have overcome some of them though.  


It is uncertain why this day was picked as an unlucky one or what the exact origin is, but...


The fear of Friday the 13th is real and according to several sites online, that fear can be called: Friggatriskaidekaphobia or Paraskevidekatriaphobia.  
According to www.macmillandictionary.com, the latter “was first coined in the early nineties by Dr. Donald E. Dossey, an American psychotherapist specializing in phobias and stress management, who reputedly claimed that when someone was able to pronounce the word they were cured!"

#Friggatriskaidekaphobia - #Paraskevidekatriaphobia

So lets practice together!!  Para – skevi – deka – tria – phobia!  Got it!  Now I’m gonna call my momma and get her to repeat it after me on the phone. 😊


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Go forth and make it a happy day! #PunchTodayInTheFace - I believe in you!





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©WAHMCat 2018

I am a Procrastinating Failure... Time for change!

Well... hello there!

I have had a blog for several years on another platform and have posted from time to time on various things.  At the beginning of 2018, I could see that some things were changing in my world.  Nothing dramatic - just changes.  What was changing, you ask?  It seemed like everything and everyone... except me.😕 So I did some thinking, some research and decided to begin a new journey of sorts and found myself creating this blog on Blogger.  I am excited and can't wait to see where I am in a year. 

One morning I woke up and it just hit me.  I. Was. Not. Happy.  Who was I even?!  I honestly wasn't sure, but I knew that I wanted to figure it out and fix whatever was broken.  So I decided to write down the facts and then do a little soul searching to figure out the rest.

The Facts

  1. I am a mom.  First and foremost, I am a mother of 3 AMAZING children and that will always come before anything else.
  2. I am attached - meaning I have a significant other.  We aren't actually married, but we have been together since 2007 and while he may drive me insane at times, I can't imagine being attached to anyone else.
  3. I want to be a good friend.
  4. I want to be successful in my career.  What career?  That is to be determined, eventually.
That's it.  Seriously.  Those are the facts I came up with.  To start the soul-searching process I thought I would begin with evaluating the facts:

I am a mom.


I have always wanted to be a mom.  More than anything.  Early on, I didn't think it was in the cards for me. (A different post for another day.)  However, I have been blessed with 3 amazing children and truthfully I would like to have another.  The Mr. isn't too keen on the idea though and I'm nearing my personal preferred cut-off age so I think three is what it will be.  Currently, they are 18, 16 and 6.  Blake is a Senior this year, Alli is a Sophomore and Liam is in Kindergarten.  That's right - I have one going out and one going in.  I'm totally ok with that.  My kiddos keep me feeling young. ♥  

Alas, I am a worrier. 😟  I worry about everything, all the time.  I worry so much that none of my children know how to swim - I never got them lessons for fear of what might happen.  Now that my oldest two are teenagers they can't even go swimming with their friends.  My oldest is 18 and doesn't have a drivers license.  He didn't really care to have one at 16 and I was ok with driving him everywhere.  Now he drives all over town with his friends and that makes me worry even more.  My worrying has actually made things worse.  That needs to change so I can be the best mom I can be and make the best decisions I can for them.

Drivers Ed is being set up for Alli this week and we are scheduling Blake to start his adult driving classes. 🚗  Since he is 18 he can't take the class with his sister.  I also told them we should find adult swimming lessons this summer.  Progress.🏊

I am attached.


For better or for worse, he is stuck with me. 💑 The Mr. and I aren't actually married, but we have been together since the end of 2007 and honestly, I can't imagine being with anyone else.  There are days when he drives me nuts and days when I am in absolute mad love.  There are days when I think I'd like to punch him in the face and days when I just want to snuggle up next to him and take a nap.  We don't always agree - but we never fight.  We disagree and often agree to disagree.  But we totally balance each other out.  He puts up with my sassiness and I... well, I don't punch him in the face. ♥

However, I feel inferior and have tiny self-esteem issues.  I do not always budget well, I collect clutter and I am a terrible cook.  Not to mention that he and I rarely spend quality time together.  All of that needs to change.  Love deserves time and I need to figure out how to re-work my priorities.

I am currently sorting out all of the things I really don't need to keep for any sane reason.  We are having a yard sale in a few weeks and anything that doesn't sell goes on the curb.  I have been planning meals and have already cooked two meals this week - and no one got sick! 😉  Just kidding, I'm not that terrible of a cook, I just don't really understand spices and such.  I'll get there.  As for the self-esteem issues that I've battled with my entire life... yoga? meditation?  I'm not sure about that yet, but I'll figure it out. 

I want to be a good friend.


I have 3 very good friends that I speak to almost every day, thanks to the Marco Polo app.  (I love this app and I added links at the bottom of this post so that you can check it out.)  They are the almost mystical *true friend* variety.  They would do just about anything for me - and often have - even if it put them out.  I appear to be very fun, out-going and friendly, so I make friends pretty easy.  I have a billion acquaintances that I've met over the years that I enjoy chatting with as well.  I am a lucky girl in that aspect.♥ 

I cannot say that I am the best friend I could be.  I know that I enjoy spending time with my kids and "working" (we'll get to that in the next section), but I rarely make time to spend with friends.  That must change.  What is life without friendship?  Loneliness, sadness, despair.  I don't want that for me.  I would bet that if you asked my three besties if I was a good friend, they would say yes.  I think that is mainly because THEY are such good friends.

I am going to start messaging someone weekly that I haven't talked to in a while just to ask how they are doing.  Whether it be text, Facebook Messenger, Marco Polo, some other social media platform or sending something in the mail - I would like to reach out to someone weekly.  I also want to take one day a month and spend it with a friend, even for just a few hours.  Whether it be a movie or bingo with Bonnie or painting and wine with Stacy or lunch with a friend - I want to take at least 1 day a month and give back - selflessly.🌞

I want to be successful in my career.


Doesn't everyone? Probably.  Is everyone? Definitely not.  So what is the secret?  I thought long and hard about this and I think I have figured it out!  Career success isn't a thing - it's not tangible.  You can't scoop it up and squeeze it.  There are a ton of definitions out there - but I disagree with most of them.  I personally don't think there is a defining moment in one's career that defines success.  Sure, you can go from rags to riches and become a billionaire - that's pretty successful.  You can become a dancer after a tragic accident that damaged your legs.  You can become a world-famous author after bombing English in high school and being known as the person most likely to be caught sleeping in class.  You can do amazing things that can all be considered successful.  But success is different for everyone.  For me, it's not a moment in time, it's a feeling.  A fullness in your chest that swells with pride.♥ 

Unfortunately, some days I feel like a procrastinating failure. 👀  The truth is, I am a wreck.  Maybe I have ADHD and have a hard time focusing.  Some people might just say I'm lazy.  Either way, it has to change.  I don't like the "me" that I've become.  I like parts of me, but I definitely see room for improvement.

Please take a second to hop over and read my bio.  I talk a bit about my careers 💬📚📷📊 (yep, more than one) and faves there.  I would love to connect on social media as well.  I hope you'll follow my journey and perhaps my words will help you through yours.  The bottom line is that I have an amazing family, wonderful friends and the desire to make a difference in the lives of people.  I have started with the facts and I know what I want.  I need to take it one day at a time, think things through, be a little more selfless and just get up and do it.  Time to get happy.♥

(Also - I really like emoticons, it's a little fixation, like the one I have with washi tape. And hearts.♥)

Cat


Just me.  Excited about all of the good things to come. ♥



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